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Phobias #Blogtober17 day 16

Fear is a healthy survival instinct but phobias are irrational.
I only have one real phobia and that is flying (or should that be crashing?!) The last time I flew was in 2004 and I blacked out on take off as I was so terrified. I spoke to a pilot friend of mine and he told me not to worry about take off as the landing is much more tricky! NOT helpful!

I would really like to overcome my fear as I would like to take the children to various countries. For some reason (trains!), Matthew is insisting he would like to go to Japan and the only way that is feasible is by plane.
I know all the statistics and how safe air travel is (odds of being in a plane crash 1 in 11 million, odds of being hit by a meteorite 1 in 700,000) but I think my main issue is the lack of control. I am a terrible car and train passenger too. Maybe if I was able to fly a plane I would feel better!

I have other fears which count more as aversions rather than phobias. I coped very well with Friday 13th last week despite my initial worries. I hate water in my eyes or ears so have never learned to swim and don’t take showers unless a bath is impossible. See this photo: never going to happen…

Perhaps the thing that scares me most is something terrible happening to the children. This isn’t a phobia, it is the natural reaction of a parent.

‘Thunderstruck’ by Ali Sparkes, review and giveaway!

Matthew’s school was lucky enough to be visited by award winning author Ali Sparkes who gave the children an inspirational talk that had Matthew completely enthused about writing.
After school we went along to the book signing, and wow, I think every child in the school went along to buy copies of Ali’s books and get them signed.

Matthew chose a copy of her latest book Thunderstruck and I chose a book aimed at younger readers for Anya.

‘Thunderstruck’ introduces us to Alisha and Theo who are struck by lightning! Luckily they survive but they start seeing ghosts. The two main ghost characters they meet are Lizzie and Doug who were also struck by lightning back in the 1970s.
Soon, the two main characters see other ghosts too and they seem to be trying to warn them of something…
I was a little concerned about the topic of ghosts being tackled in this book as Matthew is very sensitive and also a little younger than the target audience of the book. However, he had no problem with the subject matter and loved the book from beginning to end!
There were moments of laughter (Matthew and Anya particularly enjoyed the fainting scenes and Lizzie’s 1970s singing and dancing) to combat the spooky nature of the plot.
My love of history was also covered in this book and it made the children want to know more about the events described in the book (which I won’t spoil!)
The ending was very touching involving Dougie’s family. I won’t give away any more detail but if you do want a (slightly obscure) clue then click here.
I absolutely loved this book and so did Matthew and Anya. We are now going to start on Anya’s book aimed at a younger readership and I think Matthew will get more of Ali’s books for Christmas.
I have a copy of Ali’s Thunderstruck as a signed audiobook to give away to one lucky UK winner. Good luck!


Win a signed copy of ‘Thunderstruck’ by Ali Sparkes audiobook

*I contacted Ali when I heard about her visit and she kindly donated the book for Matthew and the audiobook prize. The second book was purchased with my own money. All word and photos are my own.

Old photos #Blogtober17 day 15

I love looking through old photos, remembering events that are now slightly hazy in my memory!
Now that I have children, I especially love looking at photos of myself at the ages my own children are and looking for similarities between us.
I don’t find old photos embarrassing. I hope that in the future my own children look back on the (thousands of) photos and enjoy the memories they inspire. I am really interested in family history so I hope that one day, maybe 150 years from now, the photos will still be enjoyed by my descendants.