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Vlogmas Chocaccino Mud mask

I haven’t used a face mask in ages, possible not since having Anya! I will definitely getting back into the habit of using them!
This was by the till in Primark at the Lexicon in Bracknell and I couldn’t resist it!

My skin an hour after washing off felt absolutely amazing, so soft and smooth. This one contains coffee seeds to it has an exfoliating effect when you massage it in on application and when washing off.
The fragrance of this is so delicious, very chocolatey and rich without being cloying. I have fallen in love!
It is also vegetarian. I will be honest and say that although I am a vegetarian, I haven’t ever really given much consideration to whether my consmetic and skincare is so I will exploring this more in the new year.
90p from Primark and many others in the range, I will be heading there again asap!
If you want to see me looking peculiar then watch my video 🙂

The Christmas Tag

Thank you to Lauretta at Home and Horizon for tagging me in The Christmas Tag. Please head over and read her answers to these festive questions!
OK let’s get started!
What’s Your Favourite Christmas Movie?
Ummm Home Alone, Die Hard and Muppet Christmas Carol.

Have You Ever Had A White Christmas?
I don’t think so but I don’t really want one as the travel chaos would be awful for families.
Where Do You Usually Spend Your Holiday?
As a child we alternated grandparents. Now my sister and I take it in turns to host our parents. Last year Mum and Dad were with us plus we also had Chris’ mum with us as it was Zach’s first Christmas.
What Is Your Favourite Christmas Song?
Band Aid’s ‘Do They Know It’s Christmastime?’
Do You Open Any Presents On Christmas Eve?
Absolutely NOT!

Can You Name All Of Santa’s Reindeer?
Dasher and Dancer, Prancer and Vixen, Comet and Cupid, Donner and Blitzen, Rudolph. Is that all of them…?
What Holiday Traditions Are You Looking Forward To This Year?
Traditions that we are creating for our family. So stockings by the fire, decorating a Yule Log, putting out a mince pie and carrot for Father Christmas and Rudolph.
Is Your Christmas Tree Real or Fake?
Fake and drowning under the weight of tinsel and baubles 🙂

What Is Your Favourite Holiday Treat/Food/Sweet?
I love crisps so having big bags to nibble from throughout the season is great
Be Honest, Do You Like Giving Or Receiving Gifts Better?
Before I had kids, I definitely loved getting presents. But since having kids, it is brilliant to watch them be so excited and thrilled with the gifts.
What Is The Best Christmas Present You Ever Received?
This might sound strange but a desk when I was about 8. I still have it, it is currently in our bedroom.

What Is Your Dream Place To Visit For The Holiday Season?
I love being at home and can’t imagine being anywhere else
Are You A Pro Present Wrapper Or Do You Fail Miserably?
I am useless at wrapping presents even something straightforward like a cube/box
Most Memorable Christmas Memory?
I don’t think any stand out….

What Made You Realise The Truth About Santa?
I think friends at school had told me. One year my mum told my sister and then looked at me nervously and said ‘You did know…?’
What Makes The Holidays Special For You?
Time together with the family. No work, school or homework to worry about.

Right, those are all of my answers, I now tag Anna at Anna Nuttall, Lisa at Mummy Gummie, Deb at My Random Musings, Kira at Unconventional Kira. 

#MySundayPhoto winter warmer

Outside the temperature is in minus figures so we are enjoying the roaring fire.

I am feeling incredibly grateful for my home and family this weekend.
On Friday I was in London and saw several homeless people. I hope they have found somewhere warm to shelter in this bitter weather and I hope they find love and kindness at this festive time of year.
To borrow a phrase: do they know it’s Christmastime?

#StayClassyMama linky 7th December 2017

I’m cohost of #StayClassyMama this week! Huge thanks to White Camellias for letting me join in. I can’t wait to read what you are all linking up this week!


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Teens: everything changes, everything stays the same!

It has been an incredibly busy couple of weeks as I have been invigilating exams every day.
They are not called mock exams any more, they are now Pre Public Exams or PPEs.

So was the word ‘mock’ meaning that they were not being taken seriously and now an acronym gives more gravitas?
No. The teens treat them just the same as ever. The ones who want to do well try their best and the ones that don’t care write their name and go to sleep.


I have been utterly incredulous this week. A boy has just got back from a 4 week holiday with his parents. He hasn’t revised. He doesn’t care and apparently neither do his parents.
How is this possible?! I have just spent the weekend supporting my children with their homework (I allowed Anya to use glitter, it wasn’t pretty! I immersed coins in different liquids for Matthew). When they have exams I will be testing them, helping them, encouraging them to try their best.
The thing that has stood out for me this last fortnight is the lack of individuality compared with previous years. The girls all seem to have high up ponytails which then droop down over their papers. At least it covers their heavily structured eyebrows!
One girl in particular has caught my attention. Last year I thought she was very natural and pretty, how I imagine Anya may turn out in 10 years. What a difference a year makes! Now she has makeup so thick and orange that she actually looks blank, completely devoid of any character.

Thinking about bags next. The boys continue to have functional backpacks like I had as a child but the girls have fancy handbags that barely contain all of their belongings.
Fingernails! OK here I can relate a bit. I used to keep my nails long but some of these girls have perfect manicures and can barely hold a pen to write with them! Ridiculous (but so so pretty)
Teenagers are changing but they are also staying the same. I think today’s teens seem much older but not necessarily wiser than we were. They try too hard to fit in because they haven’t learned to love themselves for who they are. They aspire to be famous and celebrated. Social media has led to changes in friendship dynamics which I can’t even imagine. Teens want the affirmation of others when they should be discovering confidence in themselves. Some have not been set boundaries by their parents so have misplaced confidence which has spiraled into arrogance.
These children (because despite what they want us to think, they ARE still children) will learn for themselves that ‘beauty fades, dumb is forever’ as Judge Judy frequently says. I hope my children keep their love of learning but I will be there to nag them about their schoolwork!
My school reunion this year made me grateful for the years of experience I now have. I wouldn’t be a teen again if you paid me a million pounds…